Honest about this site

This questionnaire is about how you stand in life, about closeness, and about everything that comes after. First you get to know yourself; then, if you wish, the match pool anonymously finds who truly fits you, based on who you are rather than on photos. After an introduction you discover each other here at speed: blocks side by side, games and talk cards. Filling it in as an existing couple works too. You go at your own pace: you can stop at any moment, and when you log in again you automatically carry on where you left off.

You don't have to reveal anything. Every question has the answer "prefer not to say". That is a full answer, not an evasion, and it is reported as such.

Your profile. As you fill things in, the site builds up a general picture of what your answers say about you. You get to see it as it grows, and you are asked whether you recognise yourself in it. Your own judgement on that counts.

Privacy and data. Your answers and usage data (such as timings) are stored confidentially on a privately managed server, sent encrypted, and not shared with third parties. They are visible to you and to the person you invite yourself or whose invitation you accept (per block that you have finished yourself). In the match pool your profile is compared anonymously across the whole list; only a total score is shown (never individual answers), and your name is only shared once you both say yes.

Stopping or erasing. On your overview page you can delete all of your data permanently yourself: immediately, without anyone else involved.

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